Chrisa Sayi

Incest is considered a taboo in most communities, ours included. And that has always created a barrier in matters concerning sexual attraction and relationships among close family members. Being raised in a community aware of these facts, we automatically do not expect a father-daughter relationship to be complicated. In fact, this bond is very special … Read more

Building a happy marriage seems to be a challenging phase for a woman. You have extra parents, siblings, uncles, cousins, and more relatives to create a good relationship with. Sometimes, your husband may also ask you to take care of his parents, leave alone invite them to come and live with you in your matrimonial … Read more

Love is fantastic, but it can also be scary, terrifying, and brutal at the same time. If your feelings for your boyfriend scare you, you could be worried that it’s an indicator that something is off or that the fear might sabotage your relationship. If that is the case for you, what should you do? … Read more

Marriage and dating, to most people, come with varied desires and lifetime goals. What a man desires in marriage and life may be different from what a woman desires. For instance, while a man wants financial breakthroughs, success, freedom, and adventures, most women want a committed man, successful relationships, and passion for life. With all … Read more

It is believed that love and marriage are built on trust, commitment, and understanding. For them to work, both partners need to be open about their past relationships and plans. This allows each other to decide whether they are ready to accept and live with the truth. While most people who are deeply in love … Read more

The question of how many people one has slept with is always a subject of curiosity, especially when it comes to dating. We all want to know what we are getting ourselves into before starting new romantic relationships. Sure, it is a private matter but it always comes up. Both men and women are interested … Read more

Trust is the most valuable aspect of any relationship. It takes time and effort to build it, yet it is so fragile and breaks easily. When our spouse lies about something, it causes us to wonder how many other things they could have lied about. Simply put, one lie causes our spouse to question everything … Read more

Talking about the past takes us on an emotional rollercoaster whenever we reminisce on the happy moments we had, the breakthroughs, and most importantly, how everything that happened set us on a path that brought us to the person we love. Even though we are happy about who and where we are, that doesn’t mean … Read more

We have all experienced feelings of insecurity at some point in our relationships. These feelings often stem from uncertainties about the status of our relationship, a lack of confidence, and a sense of not being good enough. And in most cases, insecurity arises from jealousy, whether it’s related to past or current relationships. Overcoming insecurities … Read more

I had everything a man could wish for; a beautiful family backed by a lovely wife and a son I adored. We were the perfect family until, three years later, I noticed some changes in my wife.  She became extra cautious and had this paranoia cloud hovering around her. Out of the blue, she started … Read more