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How Often Should You See Your Side Chick?

It is undoubtedly true that dating and marriage scenes are now full of side relationships, something that has turned out to be a normal practice among couples.

Married men and women are now looking for other partners to confide in, especially when their main relationships go south.

While side dating is coupled with some inconveniences, it seems to work perfectly for those who understand to play their cards well.

This leads to various questions like: how often should a man see his side chick?

Generally, a side chick is someone you can have all kinds of intimate-filled fun without worrying about the trappings that come with a committed relationship.

Though, besides the sexual satisfaction that a side chick can provide, it is also vital to understand that long-term outside dating leads to genuine feelings hence, you should learn to draw some limits to avoid being caught.

One of the limits is…

How Often You Should Meet

How often you decide to see your side chick is more of a personal choice than public opinion.

For instance, you may decide to meet every day, twice per week, or even once per month depending on various factors like distance and your commitment to the main relationship.

However, no matter how long you take to see your side chick, always put your main relationship and other life factors in the equation.

Therefore, among others, here are the primary factors that determine how often you should see your side chick.

1. Why do you need a side chick?

The first question you should ask yourself is why you need a side chick, especially if you are married or in another committed relationship.

  • Is it because of the loneliness of being in a long-distance relationship?
  • Are you seeking somewhere to restore your inner peace due to a nagging wife?
  • Or, do you just want to explore your sexuality with someone who will not ask for a hand in marriage in return?

Each question determines how often you can see your side chick.

For instance, if you are in a long-distance relationship with your wife or main chick, you can see your side chick more often or even every day.

If you are seeking your inner peace away from home, you can meet your side chick anytime and spend as much time with her until you are comfortable getting back to your wife.

2. The level of your side relationship

According to Mental Help, any relationship has four stages: meeting, infatuation, enlightenment, and commitment.

Each stage defines how often you can see your side chick.

For instance, in the meeting stage, you only meet once to see if things can work out between you two and if you can take your relationship to the next level.

 In the curiosity or infatuation stage, you can see each other frequently to learn more about intimate connection, personal attributes, and how to make her like you.

The third enlightenment stage is where everything happens. Here, you may want to see your side chick more often due to the deep connection that grows as you get attracted to each other.

It is also the jealous stage where you may not want another man dating your side chick and always want to be close to her even if you are married.

Unfortunately, not all side relationships reach the final commitment stage, unless the man is ready to turn his side chick into his wife.

3. How busy is your schedule

Your schedule also determines how often you can meet your side chick.

A less busy schedule can allow you to meet more often, while a tight work structure will leave you with less time for exploration.

Also, if you spend most of your time out of town, you may only space the weekend or during your off days to meet your side chick.

However, this may seem challenging if your main relationship also demands your attention.

4. How committed you are to your main family

Your commitment to your main relationship or family is also a vital factor to consider when getting a side chick.

If you already have kids, you may need more time to bond with them, even if you are not on good terms with your wife.

That means you will have less time for your side chick.

Contrary, if you are less committed in your main relationship, you may have more time to spend with your side chick, as long as you do not get caught.

Final Thoughts

Having a side chick brings a whole lot of fun and exotic intimacy you can never get from your wife or main chick.

However, the relationship comes with its complications that you must be prepared to handle if you want it to last.

For instance, while some women may be comfortable with being side chicks, others will frustrate and demand you to treat them exclusively or reveal the relationship to your main chick.

Therefore, to avoid such incidences, it is wise to set rules and agree mutually on when to meet or talk.

Also read:

How to Get a Side Chick When Married (+Caveats to Be Aware Of)

I’m Catching Feelings for Side Chick: What Should I Do?

Chrisa Sayi

Dr. Chrisa Sayi is a distinguished clinical psychologist, renowned author, and gobally recognized relationship expert. With a decade of experience, she has guided numerous couples toward healthier, more fulfilling connections. Dr. Sayi has shared his invaluable insights at over 30 conferences and penned over 100 professional articles and books. Her expertise has been featured in many reputable publications, including Glamour, Medium, Daily Nation, Awakening Africa, Reader's Digest, Bustle, UpJourney, Fatherly, The Zoe Report, Cosmopolitan, and many more. For further engagement, you can connect with Dr. Chrisa Sayi on Twitter via @DrChrisaSayi1.

Chrisa Sayi
Chrisa Sayihttp://kenyalogue.com
Dr. Chrisa Sayi is a distinguished clinical psychologist, renowned author, and gobally recognized relationship expert. With a decade of experience, she has guided numerous couples toward healthier, more fulfilling connections. Dr. Sayi has shared his invaluable insights at over 30 conferences and penned over 100 professional articles and books. Her expertise has been featured in many reputable publications, including Glamour, Medium, Daily Nation, Awakening Africa, Reader's Digest, Bustle, UpJourney, Fatherly, The Zoe Report, Cosmopolitan, and many more. For further engagement, you can connect with Dr. Chrisa Sayi on Twitter via @DrChrisaSayi1.
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